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I believe you can't judge the out come based on your past relationships.That is like me saying I can't trust you because my ex lied to me. This is not the same guy. I personally would of avoided this position best I could. But yea this isnt the same guy as the last two and the family is not the same. I say give a trail period of moving in but let him know that if it becomes to much or stressfull that you'r going to move out. And if he really wants you two to work out he will be accepting of that and will respect you and not let anything change if you do move out.

From my experience ones intuition is seldom wrong. If your gut is telling you not to move in then its probably correct. Perhaps it is your boyfriend who should consider not moving in with his parents and instead find an alternative to this situation. Maybe a second job or cutting expenses, what ever it is he should have a good long discussion with you about it and set goals with you. Ultimatley it is also not a good idea to introduce other people into a relationship no matter how well intentioned they may be.

I know how you feel and what it is like to live with a boyfriends parents. It is smart to go by your gut feeling but also remember each relationship and man is different. If your feeling is to wait than wait and if he really loves you he will go with it and wait with you. 90 days is a long time but not that long at least you both will be positive and know for sure hopefully by the end of the waiting period you gave. I know it takes awhile to save money for a house and it is different when you live in an appartment alone together too. Some couples are able to save while living on their owm and some are not able to depending on the carreer and it is understandable. So I know and understand why your boyfriend is doing what he is doing so hopefully you both can save faster. This is a big purchace and decision, also marriage is a very big decission as well. Like I said it is better to be really really sure about your future plans.

I m seeking for someone who wants to have fun, hangs out with family and friends. I like to work out, go bowling, shoot pool , have fun in the snow and ride 4 wheelers.

Each situation is different. Its fair and appropriate to take lessons learned from previous expericne with you, but it is unfair to both of you to let the past rule to present. Take leanred tools with to use, and use the appropriate tool for the appropriate job. You and your boyfriend are considering doing what many thousands of couples once did as a matter of course while saving for a marriage and a home. If you are not of a mind to live apart and save for your marriage and your home, consider that every bargain has it's trade offs. His mother my may love you and wish the best for both of you. Yet consider this adage: There can be only One. In any home with more than one female, there can be only one Top Girl. However well intentioned, the opportunites for normal, everyday, family friction will be there, no more and no less than in any healthy home. He needs to be clear about boundaries, and so do you, and so will his parents, his mother in particular. And you will ned to accept that you will most likely have to compromise about something you wish not to, and perhaps relinquish an independent voice while you are living under someone else's roof. It will feel unfair, and challenging. It might very well work out. Being prepared before hand will help you both decide whats best your the both of you.

She needs to quite finding these mama's boys, 3 guys in a row - no one is that unlucky ........ or maybe they were financially well off - until she gets a hold of them????????????

If she can live on her own, why doesn't he just move in with her and find a temporary job? She can fully fund for herself, it seems, and any income he makes will help. He's 27- He shouldn't be moving back in with mom and dad, and the last thing his mother should be telling her is to move win with her. That raises a red flag to me. It sounds like his mother wants control of their living situation. If his mom really wanted to help, she might, oh say, give them a loan to pay off a few months rent that they could repay her in the future. At least that would offer both independent living, whereas living in HER house makes them both dependent- and that is probably, and sadly, something mom is hoping for. She needs to be careful.

Relationship issues aside, let's talk financial logic. Does it make sense for her to keep her own place while he lives with mommy & daddy? Maybe what they need is budget counseling. I've been married for 17 years and unfortunately my husband got some rather strongly opinionated in'laws. Good thing I don't like to be told what do do by them either!

living with in-laws isn't something i'd advise. u are exposing yourself and in the end they will know too many things they dont need to know about u and vice versa. for respect between both parties there should be an element of mystery. if your man wants to live with his parents, cool. it doesnt mean u have to do the same. your relationship can still work even if you dont live together. after all its not like u married. u myt be surprised to find out that u prefer to live alone after all.