Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. answers: I doubt if you're doing anything wrong, per se. It's probably more a case of mistaken identity. It interests me that you'd say guys you go out with have no interest in you at all -- do you mean they're only interested in sex? They must have something in mind to go out in the first place. There are several possibilities here. Perhaps your profile doesn't reflect what the man finds when he actually meets you. Or, perhaps you're expecting too much from the first date, and your disappointment shows. Or, maybe you put too much emphasis on wanting a relationship and scare them off. Here's a thought: instead of going out on the traditional date, invite the next man to go along with you and some of your friends to lunch or a movie, a sporting event, or art gallery or museum. The group energy will take the pressure off dating, and give you a chance to get to see each other interact with other people.

David Wygant answers: You are almost there. When I met my girlfriend, I was single for three years and probably went out on over 300 dates, and this is my profession! It takes time to find the right connection. Look over your profile and consider making some changes. A slight change sometimes attracts a different type of man. Also what else are you doing to meet people? Are you only using the Internet? I just wrote a book and it goes over all the great places to meet men. I feel that everyone should have at least five ways of meeting men.

The Insightful Dater answers: In a lifetime, we will meet many prospects and yet find only a very few who we are meant to share our hearts with fully. The first and most important question is, are you going out with the right type of guy for you? Ultimately, you have to be ready to give of yourself on another level. It is human nature to crave intimacy and yet to also guard our hearts. If you aren't open on a deeper level to sharing who you are, then all the dinner conversation and dates in the world aren't going to get you where it is you say you want to go. P.S. On the flip side, if you are trying too hard, you are probably scaring the guys off. Relax and enjoy yourself, and the right things will unfold in your life.

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