There is really no list that can turn-off a man. Dating for a man is sex. We are thinking how can I get this girl in bed on the first date. Just because we think like this does not mean we are not thinking with are big head. We will "date" a single mother...just as long as we use protection because she already made one mistake, she can make another and make you pay for it. Guys are just looking to get laid. Guys make the mistake in talking or answering her questions. Let her do all the talking, that way she thinks your a good listner and you won't say nothing stupid that might not get you laid that night. #3 Meet her at a bar or night spot. That way you don't spend money on dinner, only on drinks. The girl will know if she wants to sleep with you in the first 30 seconds anyways. Why spend money if she is not interested. #4 She is all about your money...Make her think you are going to spend money on her but don't. Also refer to #3. #5 is just like #2. #6 Do not even attempt with #6...any girl with baggage is damaged goods...she will always be a mess and you will feel the aftermath. #8 and # 9 are the same...play their game with back-handed compliments...#9 has alot of self-esteem, break it down slowly, like "Most girls look like Paris Hilton, skinny, or thin, I like you just the way you are" that will drop the self-esteem from a 10 to a 4 in no time. #10 Leave that sitiuation alone. She will most likely try to trap you by having a baby from you. Alway's use protection with her and take the left-over's with you...she might go trash-dumping for your condom to make her dream wedding come true. Always remember fella's it's war. We are in demand, not them...Woman think they have the magic vagina, they don't.

Sometimes it's as simple as physical chemistry. He might like everything about you but you just don't turn him on.

you 1st contributer is an idiot.

The first comment, wow. He must definitely be an idiot. Not only does he have horrible grammar, he is also completely oblivious to how stupid he is.

To the guy that made comment number 1, you're slime and the reason some women will play the game. In the end you get what you put into a relationship. Put in nothing and that's what you'll get nothing.

That's a good list.

I disagree completely with the first poster. Real men are NOT just in it for sex. Empty sex is just that. Without a relationship, you might as well just whack off in the shower, buddy. If you have a great relationship and are truly meant for each other, then the sex will be what it is supposed to be; a celebration. Then you both win. Why would you want or settle for anything less? Why would you want her to do so?

This is a well writen article, but the first poster is rather a moron. I agree with the poster above me.

These young puppies don't have a clue how to treat women. No wonder all they can attract is the bar trash where they hang out. The only thing they have going for themselves is their ego and their car. How pathetic!

For comment 13, that's just the way it should be. Sex without love leaves you feeling empty.