it is all facts listed out here, definately not a curse... if u think this article is braeking up r relationship than u know taht something i swrong but just trying to pretend it i s not. face reality gals, i know deep in our heart we always worried if after letting go this one, will we ever find smmo better than him? i , myself, drag on to a relationship with smmo not for me but i try to pretend that he was perfect, finding excuses for whatever he did. Hoping one day he will change but in reality he never and will never. after finally letting him go after many years, i realised having smmo not for u is worse than having noone beside u. so gals, try to face reality and dun try to pretend he is the one if u realise in onw part of ur mind that he is not!!! Cheers and a five 5 star to Judy Bolton and Wendy Bolton Floyd

BRAVO! At 42 I'm just trying to figure this all out again, after a divorce. Its as true now as it was 20 years ago.

Usually its the guy that dumps the girl. So your advice though interesting is kind of after the fact for most relationships.

This sounds like common sence to me. However, common sence, is not so common these days, but I like this.

The only thing I agree with it's number nine, woman are too into themselves. Basically if the guys does not wordships you should leave, ha ha ha. I laught this type of thing is why the divorce rate is so darn high, women want everything, I have a question what does a man gets, really could a girl tell mw what is that a man gets from doing all this stuff for a woman other then sex go ahead tell me what a man gets, besides being lawfully screw from half his possesions and money, not to mention loosing custody of kids in divorce automatically if divorce, as they say it's cheaper to keep her, and that's got to be very sad when a man has to stay married and be miserable cause he can't afforded, ha ha ha yeah I wrote believe there is alot of men in that position not t mention that they don't want to loose their kids, believe women are not the reason more men don't get divorce is the reality of what they will loose in regards to money, kids and possesions, that's why the divorce rate is not higher Now married women out how many of you have husband that just want an end to their marreage, but can't afford it, lol. Oh and yeah go ahead and ask your husband the likelyhood that he will admit to it is probably very low i'll let you figure out why.

Hmm, I find it rather annoying how people can't use proper grammar these days. If you want people to listen to you, don't type like a 7 year old .

Hmm, it sounds to me like they want everybody to break up for anything that they don't like.

It's not about money. It's not about who can do better. It's just a give-and-take relationship, that's equal on both sides. Man must sacrifce for woman as well as woman must sacrifice for man. Both also need to remind each other often of the things they appreciate about each other. Watch TV together, read to him/her, go out together, bring along friends if you want, or just make it a peaceful evening. Relationships are not that hard, it's just that people tend to focus on the nitty-gritty instead of going 'wow, she really is great' or 'wow, he's so thoughtful'. We all have our bad days, and we all have days where the other might annoy us a littlle. Appreciate and learn. Get to know your lover everyday, there is ALWAYS something to learn. Don't sweat it!

As a woman who has been divorced twice already & is currently married but separated, I think these tips are excellent advice. They're not trying to break up relationships. They are trying to spare people pain of wrong relationships. I wish I'd had my eyes open before jumping into bad relationships. Don't try to hang on just because. If it's wrong, it won't get better. I'm not really looking for a new relationship now; but maybe someday I'll figure out how to pick a right one instead of thinking the wrong one will get better.

why is "getting all hot and bothered" on the internet bad? prevents cheating, no?